How to be self-confident

Self-love: advice to mix confidence and self-esteem!


Self-love is an innovative concept that I have been developing for a while now and that aims to help you gain self-confidence and self-esteem, while enabling you to achieve much better relationships with your loved ones.

I developed this philosophy of Self-love with a double interest. The first was to put forward my new ideas to accompany you in your search for personal evolution while also targeting social relations to avoid you exclude yourself. Indeed, I consider that social connections are a powerful source to help you accomplish yourself but unfortunately most of the other coaches or disciplines of personal development tend to exclude you from this positive energy source (when it is well mastered ).

By starting my personal and love dev coaching activity in 2007, I would never have imagined meeting so many people with childhood, past and personal discomfort. And almost half of the people who contact me suffer from a malaise and a tear related to past events. And this self-love that is essential to moving forward is rarely highlighted. It is not a question of crushing others but rather of working on oneself to improve oneself and to be happy or happy.

To be happy is learned!

Given all my experience in personal development, I can say today that " live happy is learned "Everyone is going through existential crises around two main issues" Who am I? "and" Where am I going? This website has, among other things, been created to help you answer these two questions and all those related to them.

The quick conclusion I can make today is that you are in adulthood a reflection of the Love you have been given and the self-confidence in which you have built yourself from a young age. That's why I want to give you the keys that will guide you in your daily life and get everything you deserve in your life, to prevent your past from catching you up systematically.

Of course I am specialized in human relations and so I will teach you to value yourself to benefit from your interactions in everyday life with your loved ones, your colleagues but also with strangers. The goal is to reinforce this self-love so important to be happy.

Self-love, an original concept to develop your confidence!

We often talk about self-confidence, self-esteem or personal development. Unfortunately, I realized that working on these three areas often led to social exclusion and difficulties in the daily human relations because one can suddenly seem haughty, centering on oneself and thus exclude oneself from a group if the others do not recognize us.

And yet, the relationship to the other is a powerful source of energy and necessary to achieve a form of well-being in everyday life. You can not stay away from society if you wish to become a better person, defeat his painful past or simply get the life of his dreams.

So I developed a unique philosophy of working on yourself to improve everyday interactions and to help you convey positive value.

Thanks to love of selfit will be easier for you to build your daily life by pro-active in your life and by affirming your choices. The goal is to always follow your desires by becoming aware that it is necessary to adapt them according to the people around you, according to their own belief system, according to their personality, according to their desires and their needs.

This concept will undoubtedly bring you more value to your loved ones because you will refocus on what is really important to you. You will also be able to develop your other qualities, for example to fight stress, to be more relaxed and to live better all the delicate phases of the general life.

"I know what I'm worth!", Become aware of your personal worth

For almost 10 years, I have been fortunate to accompany men and women with the aim of helping them to become aware of their potential and develop their own self-esteem. You have no idea how beautiful you are, how much you have qualities buried in your fears, and above all, how much you can get a daily life that smiles at you, if you take a single risk: follow your desires and adapt to a modern society in constant evolution.

My job is to reveal your inner beauty so that it shines outside and never fades, no matter how hard you are going to live!

For develop his "Self-love "It is necessary to become aware of your values, they are everything that animates you and allow you to become a better person day after day.
The first step is to become aware of what you do in your life and that brings you positive. Do not hesitate to interrupt the reading of this article to ask you concretely what part of positive do you get in your life?

Take a leaf and note down each evening what brought you well-being in your day. What small action can change and improve your state of mind? You will learn to get to know yourself better, but also to target the positive actions you have taken with the people around you and therefore your values.
Do not forget to also position yourself on the future to use this notion of Love of Self to accomplish all your projects and your ambitions.

How do others perceive your image?

To work on your personal confidence or your self esteemit is necessary to ask yourself how others, that is to say your relatives, whether your friends, your family, your colleagues, your acquaintances, perceive you at their level.

I really recommend you to do a little exercise by suggesting to 10 people around you to name three qualities and three defects that characterize you. The objective is to see what they think of you and especially to analyze the answer they bring according to the degree of proximity that exists between you.

You can not deny that society is the engine of our daily life and that you must do everything you can to avoid excluding yourself. On the contrary, you will have to learn to impose yourself with your thoughts.

By working on the image that we refer to others and on our personal construction, we will give more strength to our daily interactions. It's a great way to gain value and transform your level of trust. Of course this will be done in the space of a few days, it takes time and perseverance, but the evolution will be present and as and as it will be really visible by all.

How to love oneself?

I fully understand that the lack of self-love is a problem for your daily life. You would like to be able to gain more confidence and serenity in the course of your life. So I want to send you a message of hope and sincerity. You can perfectly get the daily life and love that best fits your desires but for that, you will have to learn to question yourself and to change all your habitsfinally the worst ones only!

Self-love evolves through small, well-targeted actions that aim to help you live a happier life, simply. Your mission is to target your bad habits, your fears, your lack of motivation to never repeat the same pattern and offer you the right to change.

It is quite possible for you to evolve your vision of yourself by targeting the well-being that you are able to bring around you. So I'm counting on your motivation to continue to make the right decisions and act in everyday life to become a better person. You will get much more from your loved ones and the people around you.

NEVER forget a great principle of human relations " It is by giving that we receive ".

I invite you to share this article around you so that we spread together this new concept of Self-love and that personal development is associated with modern society. because in my eyes you have to love yourself to love others. If you too are fed up with not being able to talk about it freely then click on "Like" and leave a comment with your own appreciation of this concept.

Have a great day.

Alexandre CORMONT, Coach in personal development and in Love, creator of the philosophy of Self-love.